“You never know what you are worth, just like my mom” “a mother with bad luck better not die with her babies” “a swan feather with good intentions” “how could a mom taught her daughter to hope big while she lost all her hope?” 和《北京人在纽约》同为1993年的文艺作品，超越时代的意义。只想嚎啕大哭，为了所有女性。讨论了很多时至今日都在讨论的内容，比如讨好型人格。